I Am ME!

I am me. I’m who I’m meant to be. I am a product of my past, the look of my present and the hope in the future of who I want to be. I’m not anyone else but me and I am pleased to be free in me. I am a definite work in progress with a positive strong destiny. I am who I choose to be. I am ME ~RHD~

All I can be is myself, I don't try and be someone else. I am the best ME! No one is better than the ME I already am. I Always strive to be better but I thoroughly enjoy the ME I am in today! I am certifiably me and that's the best I can be. 

Be Blessed, Be Encouraged, and Be a Blessing!


Racquel

Remove the Fear!

How many fears are holding you back? How would you live if you had no fear at all? Without feeling the emotion of fear, would you be more willing to take risks, especially when the worst case wouldn't actually hurt you at all? What kind of difference would that make in your life?


Ambrose Redmoon stated, "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear."

You must find something else that is more important than fear!  We cannot defeat fear, but we can remove power from fear by not feeding fear, by not accepting fear. Unless fear is sustained, fear cannot survive, and this is how we will transform our own life, by removing fear, and responding with love.

Fear does not stop death....It stops Life! 

Take action to avoid the paralysis that fearful thoughts can place on you living. 

LIVE BIG

I have being talking Live BIG for a couple of weeks now... Often people ask me what that means.  For me it means LIVE B.elieving I.n G.od! It is a statement that gets me through each day. We have not been placed on this earth to live small...or to Live S.eeking M.ore A.nd L.iving L.ess... We have been placed on earth to LIVE and to LOVE. So when I say LIVE BIG I am using the power of God within me to move forward in spite of how I feel and in spite of how lupus tries to dictate me to live.

“Being a mature being means living with a purpose, your own purpose: it’s about welcoming responsibility as the nourishment a big life needs: it’s about behaving as a good citizen – finding ways to add value to the community in which you live; it’s about wrestling with your weaknesses and developing heart, mind, and spirit – none of them properties of the spectator crowd.” ~John Taylor Gatto~

Living BIG doesn’t mean we strive for fame or fortune. It doesn’t mean we need to be the next American Idol or America's Next Top Model and be well known across the world. It simply means we live with a God given purpose and make a concerted effort to take real responsibility for achieving that purpose.

So with that, are you ready to LIVE BIG? Once you do watch how your life will change! 

LIVE BIG and Love On Purpose, Put on your living shoes and get to living!

Magnificent Me!

I am an excitable person who only understands life through excitablity..

I am thirsty for the marvelous in me and in others, mediocrity is not an option...

Only the astounding has power over me....

Anything that is not extraordinary, I must let go! 

I believe in intoxication of the phenomenal and spectacular and I never let the ordinary and mediocre shackle me...

I remove all walls and barriers and walk boldy and confidently in the magnificent me!

Domestic violence should not happen to anybody. Ever. Period. But it does - and when it does, there is help. Maybe you have lived with abuse, maybe it happened just once; maybe you work or live next to someone who is being abused right now. Don't take a backseat extend your hand to assist his/her life may depend on it.

Freedom’s Reign

The SLAP of your hand did NOT motivate me

It betrayed my trust in you and destroyed the ME I wanted to be!

Although you say you love me with all of your might,

Must I feel that might with constant physical fights?

Your knee in my chest, your hand around my throat

Should’ve been a sign to me that this relationship wouldn’t float.

The pain you cause me is unsuitable to my mind,

I become weak and disorganized unable to find….

Unable to find my way to complete overdue freedom

From you and the madness and overexposed mayhem.

Today I am here to let you know once and for all,

That I will no longer be your punching bag on the living room wall.

I stand before you strong and ever so tall.

With a preparedness to strike back and never again to fall.

You see right now I OWN YOU with the Strength of My GOD,

With the attitude to back it up and a mind racing like a hot rod.

No longer will I be a part of your agonizing bliss,

You must suffer alone now, never to be missed.

I can say I loved you, but your returned love hurt too bad.

I can no longer live my life in fear and anger feeling sorrowful and sad.

Now I must leave you to meet my FREEDOM WHO REIGNS

Away from you and the madness the constant hurt and pain.

Racquel Dozier

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Choices....

We each have choices !!......


One reader sends me a message- ‘Is this all u do online?  Gosh you are 
always online... I can't go a day without one of your posts you post too much...’……….

I do try to post as much as I can in-between work, family, life and other things! I really like Facebook because it offers me an opportunity to really reach a lot of people about things I am passionate about like Lupus Awareness, Lupus Support, Love, Living a positive life and  making people laugh....


Supporting people is a very big part of my life and something which I 'choose' to dedicate as much of my time to as possible - both online and in person. It's what I do......It's what I love and is really what gets me moving from day to day....


I really am trying to support people and afford them an opportunity to laugh and get some things off their chest...and discuss some serious and fun things. But I understand my page is not for everyone. So with that....If you find my posts are too many for you or are not your style and they're filling your newsfeed you can either 'hide' my posts from showing on your page and visit my page as you like or 'unfriend' me and just visit my blog anytime at your leisure. 


I appreciate all of the support that is given and the love that is always shown by those who enjoy the things that I show on my page.


Have a GREAT day. {{{hugs}}}


Rocky

Love Jones Minute: Want to be Loved

We all want to be loved, to be happy. So why aren’t we? Because we’ve become experts at sabotaging our own happiness. Feeling like victims, when in fact it’s the choices we make, the bad habits, the vices, the inability to show love and compassion. These are the things that tear us down. We’re not victims. We’re assassins when it comes to love and happiness....


Every choice you make produces a consequence that is either positive or negative.  People say they are miserable YET they live life day to day and NEVER change it. Think about this, the ONLY one who can change is YOU. The unknown can be YOUR biggest blessing. Change YOUR mind, YOUR way of thinking, the people YOU surround yourself with, change YOUR surroundings, and maybe you'll find a BIG change in you.

Happiness is based on you and your actions. Stop assassinating your happiness and love.  Love doesn't demand to be loved back, but it doesn't mean it exists to be taken for granted either.....Remember happiness does not come as a result of something you receive but from recognizing all that you have. When you do this the want to be loved will be filled with love itself.


It's a Love Jones Minute
It only takes a minute to increase love awareness....


Racquel