Ladies Straight Talk 11/28/10

This is a session of straight talk for the ladies.


Today I want to talk about women, children & baby daddies.
I know you are saying why?  but some things need to be said.


So I was watching a program where the baby's daddy was coming to see him for the first time.  Well when he walked up the mother immediately gave some serious attitude. Now mind you I don't know all that was going on in the relationship but IMMEDIATELY this woman had an attitude when he walked up.  So the baby daddy says what's wrong with you why you acting all brand new with this stink attitude.  Well she proceeds to continue to give mad tude, sucking her teeth acting all ignorant.


Now Ladies Straight Talk.... That attitude is Absolutely ridiculous!


When we are in a messed up situation with a man why is it the children have to suffer? Why do we act ignorant and cut the fool and give attitude to a man that comes to see his child? When will we as women leave that baggage at the bus station & move on? You know I see it all the time women angry for the man not being there physically, financially, mentally, emotionally then projecting that anger on the child and the relationship they need to have with their father. But Rocky you don't know what I have been through with this man. I say to that child I don't need to know because it is not about you and that man it is about that child.


It has become increasingly difficult  for men to be in their children's live because of the baggage that the woman brings.  We as women are so busy worrying about what the man has not done that we overlook what they are trying to do. We focus on our relationship with the man instead of the relationship that the child needs to have with his father.

Ladies Straight Talk, stop being a bag lady, you are stinking up the joint & it is not becoming of you. Stop hindering relationships for your children with your baggage and your issues. All men are not dogs and most men want to take care of their responsibilities, but they can't do it if you are always giving attitude and drama when they try.






It's Straight Talk, The TRUTH, Don't get mad cause I'm calling you out, put your big girl panties on take heed, listen and change!  Spread the word, don't let your sisters go down the wrong path!