Things that make you say REALLY?

Some things just make you say Oh My Really?  These are things that throw you for a loop and put your mind in a tizzy.  


Like....

Why do people believe that if someone says I love you that that means I am IN love with you?  You know there is a difference. I can love you as a friend and love the things you are about that doesn't mean I am in love with you and want to be with you for the rest of my life.  Especially when you are in a place where your problems are overtaking you and you long for friendship that word love can be taken out of context to the upmpteenth degree.  It can keep you in a fantasy land thinking that someone is in love with you when in all essence they are just stating that they love you as a friend. Why would you continue to live in your own world taking everything out of context to fit your definition of love? A huge REALLY? As adults we should learn to differentiate the two and not get so lost in the love we need that we believe that the love that never was is ours. 

Sarah Palin.... Can we stop acting like this woman is really qualified to be president of the USA? I mean really a pretty face and a little sex appeal does not make you a good candidate to run the free country. Are we as a country so easily distracted by a "pretty" face that we overlook the real needs of the country.  This world is so sexualized that it is sickening. This woman can not even run her life effectively why would she be able to really lead a nation. C'mon people wake the hell up is this all we think our country is worth a face? Really? open your eyes and stop sensationalizing someone that can only tell you how to kill a bear and teach your children how to use the finger.  Really is that what we want for this country? Really.... Really? It's a sad shame that hate of one mane can move people to support and love someone that really has no goals, speaks of nothing substantial that they can bring to the table and is just a straight dimwit who is hoping their looks can push them forward. Really? WTH are people thinking.....

Beyonce's new video. What a piece of garbage. This ties directly into why are we allowing sex and looks to determine what is done in this world.... The video is about girls who run the world first girls can't run anything a woman can but girls can not. In the video all you see is Beyonce' and her croonies running around half naked.Wooing and shaking it all showing the men that girls run the world.....you never see a woman in a leadership role... hmmmm, Really? how do girls run the world then? That's the whole really about it...GIRLS don't! They run around half naked trying to use their wiles to woo men into doing things.  Women get an education and work hard to run the world and don't rely on the superficial to progress.  I mean really Beyonce' can we move from teaching our young girls this nonsense? We have enough issues with image as women and to continue to perpetuate that you must look a certain way way and half dress to get ahead is absolutely ridiculous. Really????? Get it together!

What Really gets me is people who have a "good word" for everything. I mean from the Bible. Now before you think oh Racquel is going to hell with that, you just don't know my heart and how God works through me, for me, in between me and in me so shut it! But I am talking about those people you say, "excuse me can you please pass the jelly.." and they reply..." You know in Galations 2:4  God said that false brothers infiltrated our ranks...." .........****REALLY?*** dude I just need the jelly to put on my muffin man how the bread infiltrated the ranks???? I mean everything does not require someone to spit out a Bible verse or tell me I will pray for you or we need to pray about it.   I love the Lord just as much as the next woman & I love reading the Bible it's the best book of life and indicator of what is to come and has been, but good gosh can you not Bible me to death. We don't have to make the passing of the jelly a sermon for me. Really can you just pass the jelly so I can eat my muffin????? Really I need the jelly.... Sheeesh


SMH it drives me crazy the way the world is it is really becoming a place where it is hazardous to be....

Let me end with this, because I can go on for days at a time.

Anyone who knows me knows I am very opinionated. Listen, just because I have an opinion and voice them doesn't mean I am hating on anyone or anything.  As a matter of fact I am not even judging what I am yapping about.  I am pretty fair in my thoughts but many misunderstand them for judgments and that is far from what they are.  They are my freakin' opinions. If you don't like them use the grocery store method take what you need and leave the rest on the shelf for someone else to enjoy.  If something I say hits that nerve... hmmm maybe it was just sent to my mind just for you. I know mostly I am preaching to the choir you don't have to tell me, but since it is my opinion I am going to voice it regardless and I encourage you to voice yours to me as well.  So save all the judgement on me about my opinions about something or someone else because I really don't live by your judgments or impressions of me.  In life I have realized that you must get things off of your chest. You can't always just go with the flow of it all and not give your opinions because of what someone else will think. Think what you want I am what I am, you either love me or hate me the in between will probably not work.

Peace & Hairgrease!
Racquel