In a Love Jones Minute.....

Too often, we attach our happiness to the choices of others.  When we put demands like this on our relationships, we give our power away. This is self defeating.

How many times have you heard yourself say things like, "I will be happy when he/she tells me they love me", "Once they commit to me I will  be happy", "I will be happy once he..." and the list can go on but you get the jest of what is being said....

Happiness is what you make it and it's within your control. You don't need a relationship to define it and in the end when you realize this you begin to maintain and draw healthier relationships to you. That doesn't mean you go around broadcasting I don't need no man or woman to define me... No that is not what is being said. But, you must realize with your Real Eyes that happiness comes from you being happy with yourself not someone else being happy or drawn to you.

Your attitude is the foundation of your relationships in your life. If you are content and in love with yourself, fulfillment will surely follow.  Remember happy relationships are all about attitude.

Change your relationship with yourself, love yourself wholly and the relationships around you will change too!

It's a Love Jones Minute
It only takes a minute to increase love awareness


Racquel