Communication Basics

Just because you don't like what I'm saying doesn't mean I'm "complaining" or that I don't "understand" you or that I am not on your "intellectual" level. It's called communication and discussion and that consists of different opinions. When you learn to respect how people think and communicate differently, you can remove the condescending veil to communicate more effectively....

When communicating with others be it in person, on the phone, via text or the internet one shouldn't strive to be vocal and only see their opinion. One shouldn't take moments to toot their own horns in verbiage that is harmful to another.


It amazes me how much people want to be heard but very rarely want to listen. There are so many different angles of every situation.  In every discussion there will be times when emotion will run wild. But, as adults it is our job to see that and step back to create an effective way to communicate those emotions in the most productive way.

 I communicate effectively and I have patience. I love to debate and discuss. The thing is people tend to want to talk just to hear themselves talk and to be right instead of trying to be effective in their communications. To show what their intellect is and point out where others are at fault.....It's a shame that one's intellect can overshadow effectiveness. What's the purpose of having intellect if common sense is thrown out the window? There comes a time when when you realize that your words come with reactions and you can't be surprised if your communications are jaded and one sided if someone calls you out on it.  

The purpose of communication is to exchange ideas, to see both sides to agree or disagree but to do so effectively.  You want to avoid misunderstanding and a break in the communication.

Honestly poor communication is worse than no communication at all... I would rather a person sit in silence before opening up a can of worms of misunderstandings and jaded views.

For me, if you can't communicate effectively please don't communicate with me at all. No I don't expect communications to be perfect but I do expect a fair and balanced discussion in order to really tap into the fullness of each person I communicate with.

Be Blessed, Be Encouraged & Be a Blessing,

Racquel

“I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.”