Stop The Negative

To point out the negative of someone or something all of the time shows what type of person you really are. No one, nothing, is all negative. No matter if you don't like the person, whether you don't like what they do or whether you just can't stand anything about them, it's all a reflection of your own issues of self love and seeing beyond the negative.

When you point one finger remember three are pointing back at you. Instead of pointing out the negative of a person or a situation try seeing what's good about them and the situation, if you can't do that then you yourself have a real issue that you need to take care of immediately.

Most times when we see the negative and find the need to point them out over and over again, it keeps us stuck in a spiral of harmful talk not only for those we talk about but ourselves.

Real Talk...stop talking negative about people, places, situations and things. It only shows the negative in you.

Breath of Life

The best part of waking up, is waking up and experiencing a most amazing morning with that breath of life blown into your beautiful body! Instead of complaining about how tired you are, or how you don't want to go to work, or fussing about something that happened yesterday that you can't change..... Try being thankful for a magnificent day just being alive. You deserve the opportunity to live without constraints of negative thinking. When you feel the need to complain, state "I Won't Complain." Try it, you just may like it and your day will change with your concerted talk to make it so!

Be Blessed, Be a Blessing and Be Encouraged

It amazes me

It amazes me the life I live. The things I have been blessed to experience and the people I am ecstatic to have in my corner.

They say God never gives you more than you can bear and I know this first hand to be true. When you feel like you can't go on He places the right people...the perfect things...the just right on time situations to let you see the blessings that surround you as aides to get you to where He needs you to be.

Yes sometimes the road we have to travel is difficult and can weigh heavily on us as we carry our loads.  Yes we will cry,  get angry,throw fits and fall out. We have to release that in order to move on.

Once we release it we are able to see the brighter day ahead. We just cant give up, can't give in abd can't let it get us down.

You know the poem, Mother to Son by Langston Hughes.Well, son, I’ll tell you:Life for me ain’t been no crystal stair.It’s had tacks in it,And splinters,And boards torn up,And places with no carpet on the floor—Bare.But all the time I’se been a-climbin’ on,And reachin’ landin’s,And turnin’ corners,And sometimes goin’ in the dark Where there ain’t been no light.So boy, don’t you turn back.Don’t you set down on the steps’Cause you finds it’s kinder hard.Don’t you fall now—For I’se still goin’, honey,I’se still climbin’,And life for me ain’t been no crystal stair.

I memorized that poem at 9 who would have thought it would apply to me as an adult.

I won't fall now. ..I'm still going...climbing...

My life. ..it's not an easy one but it sure is one that I will live to the fullest. Falls, scrapes and all!

The Sentimental Mom

Embrace the time with your children and make it quality time together. Time moves so fast and in a blink of an eye they are developing in your womb, in the next blink they are in diapers and in the very next breath before you blink again, they are driving and coming into adulthood.  The growth happens so quickly, make sure you love them more than you scold them, kiss them more than you curse them and spend quality time nurturing them more than you leave them to provide a way of life. Teach them to work smart instead of hard, how to love it through instead of being hate consumed and most of all, love them immensely through all of their good and bad days and abundantly give them the right example to follow. You owe it to them and you deserve that for yourself. 

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RANT OF THE DAY

RANT OF THE DAY BECAUSE I CAN

Unbelievable the media and the crap they put out there. There is no damn reason they should show people being killed black it out and you can hear them dying from shots to the head. UnFreakinBelievable! My mind and soul are too open to watch or listen to that crap. I care too much to be cold to the sounds and view of death. It is sickening, it is disgusting! And what's worse is that people rather talk about women's breasts and ass.... or about shows that are made to degrade women and relationships..... or which rapper is dissing who and someone's father, brother, sister, aunt, uncle was gagged bound and shot with no remorse...not a care... not a discussion. What a Sick Disgusting  world we live in where it's ok to highlight cold death before it is ok to highlight a child's accomplishment... What a crazy world we live in where it's ok to judge people instead of empathizing with what they have been through. It is absolutely disgusting!

That Beautiful Someone

It’s beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind. Someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take down all the walls you’ve built up around your mind and let them inside.

When I read the above I thought it was so profound. I had to add....

It's beautiful when you find someone who doesn't make love to you but brings the love out of you. Someone who removes themselves to enter the pinnacle dimension in your soul. Someone that rises with you spiritually to a the highest plane of life's existence.

It's beautiful when you find someone!

~RHD~

Be Encouraged, Be Blessed & Be a Blessing
Racquel

Be willing to sip a little silence so you don't have to guzzle a gallon of regret. Don't let your emotions get the best of you when you are hurt or angry. Be patient and think before reacting. When you do this you are able to be clear in your understanding of all situations. Stay in the clear and don't fear taking a breath before reacting.  

~Racquel~

Be encouraged, Be blessed and Be a Blessing!